3 things MetLife’s former CHRO wants HR leaders to know about parental leave

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Jenna Vassallo
Jun 12, 2026
Interview recap with CHRO Susan Podlogar

Susan Podlogar spent nearly a decade as Chief Human Resources Officer at MetLife, where she helped shape the employee experience for one of the world's largest insurance companies. Before that, she held senior HR roles at Johnson & Johnson.

What you may not know is that she also left her job two weeks after returning from parental leave, stayed home for five years and came back to the workforce with a clarity about what actually matters at work and at home - something she carried with her for the rest of her career.

She joined us on The False Tradeoff to share her perspective on career breaks, working parenthood and why she believes parental leave is one of the most strategically important things a company can get right.

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Here are three takeaways from the conversation.

1. Parental leave is a business disruption issue - and companies need to start treating it like one

Susan has spent her career thinking about what drives performance in organizations. And when she talks about why parental leave matters, she leads with operational risk.

"This leap is a potential disruption," she explained. "And when you have disruption, you have uncertainty. When you have uncertainty, you have stress. When you have stress for the individual, for the manager, for the team, you have decreased productivity and you have decreased engagement. That directly impacts the business and the business outcome."

But she was equally clear about the flip side. 

When companies get the leave experience right, they unlock something rare: career development for the team, stronger engagement from the returning employee and a demonstration of real organizational care that builds loyalty.

For HR leaders trying to build a business case internally, Susan's framing gives you language that travels well beyond the HR function - the kind that catches the attention of finance and operations leaders and reframes parental leave as the business issue it actually is.

2. The new employee-employer trust bond is real - and parental leave is a test of it

Susan has a specific way of thinking about what employees expect from companies today. She calls it the “trust bond” and she believes it has fundamentally changed.

"In the past, a trust bond might be stability, might be jobs for life or things like that," she said. "The trust bond that appears now is: I care for you, I invest in you, I got your back."

She believes that companies willing to demonstrate that kind of investment - through benefits, through parental leave programs, through how they show up for employees in major life transitions - will win on talent. Not because it looks good, but because employees who feel secure are more engaged and more productive.

That is a retention and performance argument. And coming from someone who ran HR at a company with tens of thousands of employees, it carries weight.

3. Even the most accomplished HR leaders wish they'd had more support

Susan vividly remembers a moment at her son's soccer game.

His friend spotted her on the sideline and asked: "Hey, who's that lady with your dad?" 

"That's my mom," her son said, to which his friend replied, "You have a mom?"

She had returned to work as the primary breadwinner after five years at home - ambitious, driven and performing at a high level. And somehow, in the middle of all of it, she had become a stranger at her own kid's game.

That moment stayed with her. She reflects now that she put so much pressure on herself when she went back - more than anyone around her was putting on her. Two working parents, young kids, competing demands, and no one in her corner to help her think it through.

"I didn't have the resources like Parentaly, which I wish I could have had," she said.

The employees going through parental leave transitions at your company right now are in the same position - trying to hold their career and their family at the same time, often without a roadmap. The companies that give them real support will earn a kind of loyalty that a policy alone never could.

What it really comes down to

Susan Podlogar has seen parental leave from every angle: as a new mother who stepped away, as a professional who came back and built one of the most distinguished HR careers in the country, and as a CHRO responsible for the employee experience at scale.

Her through line is consistent: the companies treating parental leave as a business continuity issue - not just a benefit - are the ones earning the kind of trust that keeps people around, keeps them engaged and keeps them performing at the level you hired them for.

That is not a future-of-work idea. As Susan would say, it is the “next era of work.” And it is already here.

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To celebrate all we’ve accomplished, our team shared what they’re most proud of since joining the team:

I'm most proud of how much we have done to improve the single hardest moment for women's careers (going on parental leave) ... one that is often shrouded in insecurity and fear. We've been able to help advocate for so many women (and men!) in a way that is empowering and truly life-changing.

Allison Whalen, CEO & Founder

What am I most proud of? Growth! Growing a category of support that didn't exist before Parentaly. Growing from a one-woman bootstrapped operation to a global team of 25+ employees and coaches. Growing our overall impact for working parents, with companies investing in our parental leave programming to support employees all over the world. And growing as humans: new babies, new friends, new life experiences... all while tackling new and exciting work challenges together.

Rich Burke, Head of Growth

When I reflect on what I am personally most proud of during my time here, it's working alongside a team where we constantly evolve and optimize everything that we do in order to deliver the best possible experience for the folks going through our programs. It sounds cheesy, but there are processes that my team and I used to do 100% manually that are now completely automated and systems in place that have become second nature to how we operate. Working with such thoughtful, smart, and creative people is incredible.

Sara Ophoff, Senior Program Manager

I’m most proud about doing work that makes parents feel confident and empowered about their careers during a time that can be overwhelming and challenging – not only for our clients and users who go through Parentaly’s programs, but also with our advocacy work on LinkedIn, through our podcast and other big campaigns that make a difference. It’s been pretty rewarding to build a brand people know and love because what we’re doing resonates with so many employees’ experiences in the workforce.

Jenna Vassallo, Head of Brand & Marketing

I am so proud of the way we've approached growth with such care and intentionality - with every adjustment we've made to our offerings, we've never lost sight of our goal to provide the most supportive and valuable experience for our users. I love looking back on the early stages of conversations and building that have led us to the experience we offer today. Personally, I am extremely proud of the work I've done to scale and automate our backend!

Rachel Andes, Program Associate

I am most proud of the work we do every single day to make a positive impact on working parents! Everyday I get to work with an amazing group of people…we work hard but we also have fun.

Sarah Gruber, Client Partner

I'm proud of scaling an employee experience that consistently delivers positive outcomes for new parents and their organizations. Our north star has always been the user, and we never sacrifice our high quality bar!

Mansi Kothari, VP of Product & Experience

I feel a sense of pride that I get to work behind the scenes supporting everyone. I’m proud to see all of the collaboration between the team and how Parentaly positively impacts employees.

Leo Manalo, Executive Assistant

I'm most proud of going through the Parentaly program myself! I'm so proud to work for and promote this company in a time where parental leave and supportive policies are at the forefront of a national conversation. But beyond this, I'm most proud to call myself a participant.

Emmy Carragher, Enterprise Partnerships

I’m really proud of the work I did to expand our coaching bench globally at Parentaly. It was so rewarding, not to mention insightful, to connect with talented coaches from around the globe. This expansion not only enriched our coaching offerings but also strengthened our commitment to making a meaningful impact on families all over the world.

Nicole Hagemann-Bex, Senior Coaching Operations Manager

I have tremendous pride in the knowledge that what I am doing will change the career landscape for new parents, particularly mothers. This will make it more likely that my daughter can have a career AND a family without worrying about the unintentional negative impact of taking parental leave. Nothing makes me prouder than that.

Mindy Himmel-Brown, Strategic Partnerships

In my short time at Parentaly, I'm proudest of the work we're doing with our clients' ERG groups to elevate the stories and advice of actual working parents. It's such an impactful way to spread the word about Parentaly as an essential resource for all people growing their families, and the managers who support them!

Alex Diskin, Enterprise Account Manager

I'm most proud about using LinkedIn to connect with others. I was recently able to share a helpful return to work doc with 50+ new people looking to make a difference at their company. Was pretty cool that people from Chewy, McDonald's, Honda, Cisco, AWS, Walmart and more want to integrate just a piece of what we have to offer. Also...I'm so proud of the way I feel as an employee at Parentaly. For the first time in my career my personal interests align with my professional interests and I've never felt more motivated.

Jenny Hurwitz, Strategic Partnerships

I'm really proud of being able to help the Experience team by handling the supportive functions so they can focus on the bigger picture. It feels great to know that I’m making things easier for them and contributing to the team’s success.

James Mango, Executive Assistant
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